Wednesday, December 27, 2006

Christmas Day

We were graciously invited to enjoy Christmas "lupper" (lunch/supper) with the Leavengoods. Here are a few pictures from the festivities. Apologies in advance for the crazy faces some people are making...I didn't take the picture at the dinner table!! (Yes, that's also known as passing the buck.)


Almost the whole gang...only Pam and Lois are missing from the table at this point...Aidan and Isabel are at the kids table right behind Batch and me.





Isabel was thrilled that Santa brought her a PINK bike. She's not quite sure how to ride it yet, but Aunt Laura was kind enough to help her out...

Missy, Corie and Murphy got a tug-o-war toy they could all enjoy at the same time.

"Grammy" was here...

Ok, so Batch and I don't have children yet so my dog thinks and acts like he's the child of our family. This is especially true when my mom is around. She arrived on the 21st and was able to stay until the 26th- a welcome extended stay! Here's a picture of Luke in his "happy place":

An unexpected Christmas guest

In preparation for our holiday company, Batch was trying to complete one last home project on the 23rd. He was almost finished the project but needed to make a "quick trip" to Lowes. Just around the corner from our house he spotted what he first thought was a deer crossing Bayview...the deer turned out to be a lost Great Dane puppy. We estimate the dog is about a year old, well cared for with a black collar, but NO tags. We've contacted the police department, Humane Society, local Great Dane rescue but have had no success in finding the owners.

Our family arrived on December 26th and the Deans' (Batch's sister and her family) have agreed to take him home with them to Fayette, AL. They have several acres of land and a small horse stable so he will fit right in with them.

Here are some pictures of our unexpected Christmas guest:

Batch returns to Christmas past...

"Santa" was very good to Batch this year and remembered a wish from Christmas past. When we lost our house on the beach all of Batch's train collection was inside. "Santa" decided to use the eBay elves and buy a replacement...I think it was a hit!!

The train set is a vintage 1970s' Lionel Train much like the set Batch had growing up.

Thursday, November 09, 2006

Blast from the past...

I ran into our illustrious "plumber", John Tasselari, today in Lowes. A whole flood of emotion came over me as I explained to the guy next to him in line that he shouldn't give him any money because he was a crook. I didn't get super angry, but my blood pressure is still on its way down.

As it turned out the guy I was talking to wasn't with Tasselari. And Tasselari dropped his stuff and left the store immediately.

It is sad/maddening that the authorities aren't able to pursue this guy and that he is here and likely still perpetuating his scam on others.

B

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Busy Season

Since it's been a while since we posted, I'll give you a little summary of where we've been.
As is typical for us, the fall is our personal "busy season" (if you don't recognize the terminology, ask an accountant). After enjoying a quiet Labor Day weekend at home, we have been on the road almost non-stop since September 8th. Although it's been a hectic schedule, we have enjoyed the activities and events we've been able to attend. Here's what our schedule has been so far:
- Wedding shower for our friends Skip and Shelly (Jackson, MS)
- MSU football game (Starkville, MS)
- PCA Women in the Church Conference (Holly only- Atlanta, GA)
- Long weekend with Mom M (Columbus, OH)
- Baby shower for Ashely (local- Ocean Springs, MS)

The next couple of weekends involve local activities such as a Pat Green concert tomorrow night in New Orleans then it's back on the road for November. We'll be visiting San Antonio, TX (company meeting); Miami, FL (Holly only- bachelorette party); Birmingham, AL (pit stop to visit friends); Maggie Valley, NC (Thanksgiving); Atlanta, GA (pit stop returning from NC). I'm also trying to plan a party for the Saturday after Thanksgiving since many of my friends from high school will be in town for the holiday.

What can we say, we're tryin to live the saying "Work Hard, Play Hard!" In the midst of all this travel we have made some progress on the house, so I'll try to post some new pictures this weekend or next week.

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Patience vs Impatience

I've been confronted with my impatience in a number of ways this week. Just now, as I began to become angry and frustrated (forms of impatience), I searched BibleGateway.com for 'patient'. A number of verses were referenced, but I found particular comfort in the following result.

Ecclesiastes 7:8

8Better is the end of a thing than its beginning,
and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.
I certainly have seen this truth displayed powerfully in the past year. I see it all the time in smaller, everyday matters. Some circumstances seem really difficult as I approach them... dread takes over and I tend to make those circumstances more monstrous than they really are and wonder to myself, "How will I ever survive?". And often, once the 'ordeal' is over, I look back and see that it wasn't really an ordeal at all, but blessing. Sure, it was tough at times, but it was good too. And when I have truly experienced an ordeal, I can see the blessing of our God all the more clearly.

I also, found alot of timely, practical wisdom for some other current struggles in these verses.

2 Timothy 2:22-26

22So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. 24And the Lord's servant[d] must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, 25correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, 26and they may escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.
There's a lot to unpack there, but I just thought I'd share.

B

Monday, September 18, 2006

Bittersweet decision...

When we left Houston, TX a little over 3 years ago and settled on the MS Gulf Coast, it was supposed to be a "forever" decision. While we realize things do change, our point was we wanted to settle down and establish some roots rather than moving every couple of years. Well, God has other plans for us, and we are once again moving--more than likely BACK to Houston!!


This is a bittersweet decision. I am leaving a job I love where I was slated to be promoted (BIG promotion) by the end of the year. We are also leaving a house we only recently finished renovating (actually, it's still not technically finished!)- and that was featured on Trading Spaces!! Of course, there are also friends we will miss and hope will visit us in the future!

We are excited about the move and feel confident God is leading us away from the Mississippi Gulf Coast. We did not make this decision lightly and do not think the transition will be without hiccups, but we're confident God will sustain us as He's done so faithfully in the past. Please pray for us during this time- specifically:
- for confirmation/clarity regarding where we will move (again, likely H-town, but we want to be sure)
- that the transition will be smooth
- that our house will sell quickly and for a fair price
- that we'll find a new home quickly (preferably one with minimal renovation required!)

If you know anyone wanting to move to the Biloxi area, our house is for sale!!

Thursday, September 14, 2006

A Picture is worth a thousand words...

Here are some much requested and overdue pictures of the house progress. Sorry there's not more "story" to go with it, but words are failing me today...

EXTERIOR: We finished planting the front garden (courtesy of Scott) and mulched the beds. You can see Luke and Batch hard at work in the center picture! The last picture is of the rear deck- it's still not completely finished, but we enjoyed dinner out there on Labor Day!


KITCHEN: It's FINISHED!!! The last picture is a view from the kitchen into the living room and dining room. It's a great open space and perfect for entertaining!

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

One Year...

So I intended to post something yesterday, but couldn't come up with the words. It's been a year since Katrina tore through the MS Gulf Coast. In some ways it feels like it was yesterday and in others it feels like it was a life time ago. We continue to be amazed by God's grace and mercy in the midst of the changes and trials. We have been blessed in ways we could never have imagined, and we are eternally grateful to the many who have given us so much over the last year. Please know that we do remember each and every one of you and praise the Lord for your help to us.

I thought of putting links to posts from this time last year, but decided instead to just encourage you to go back and read them on your own. I don't think separating them and picking out one or 2 would do them justice. People say that memories fade over time, but I can tell you that sitting here today, a year later, typing this post, I still remember vivid details of our beach house- and I'm grateful for that. We have lots of great memories of the almost 2 years we lived there- many holidays surrounded by friends and family. We'll treasure those and remember that just because the structure and pictures are gone doesn't mean we will forget. Our treasures are not to be stored up here on Earth, but with our Father in Heaven. Ok, I get it Lord, and when I forget it again, please use a little more subtle reminder!

Monday, August 28, 2006

Curb Appeal

There really is a lot to be said for a little landscaping. Here is a current picture of the house and our weekend landscaping project. (Yes, that's my mom putting the screens back in the kitchen windows- thanks Mom!) We elected to sod the front yard and seed the back yard. Given it's August in Mississippi, we are running the sprinklers 2-3 hours a day until the sod "takes." Thankfully, Batch and Tim installed a sprinkler system so watering the lawn is not such a chore. There are a few more plants to add to the garden and some mulching to be done next weekend, but all in all, this will be the new appearance of our house!

In the backyard, Batch and Bishop are building this great deck for outdoor entertaining. In addition to the table shown in the picture, we will have some seating along the railings of the deck. Hopefully the weather will cooperate and Batch and Bishop will finish that up on Friday. Here's a picture of the deck in process:

Thursday, August 17, 2006

On the Road Again

Well, it's official, Batch is on the road again!

This weekend it's for pleasure. He's off to Vegas with 15 other guys for Skip's bachelor party. Yes, I'm slightly insane to send my husband off to sin city alone, but I trust him.

After spending next week at home trying to finish the house, he will return to TSG on August 28th. He will once again become a road warrior splitting his time between Houston, TX and Cleveland, OH. He's looking forward to the project although adjusting back to life on the road will be a HUGE challenge for both of us (and for Luke, our dog).

Friday, August 11, 2006

A few tidbits...

First of all, BELATED HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Steve D and Dad B who've had birthdays this month. I've been off my game this year and basically missed everyone's birthday so I wanted to give them some much deserved and delayed attention! WE LOVE YOU!

We are still enjoying the house although it's still a work in process. We get little things done each day so that's nice. Batch and a friend, Tim, have been working on the sprinkler system off and on this week. On Wednesday, Jerry came by and he and Batch decided to replace the old (rotted and rusted) main drainline to the house. About halfway through the process, we got the biggest rainstorm we've had in almost a year so we spent the evening with no running water, but we survived with no permanent scars.

We cashed in some of the American Express points we've been racking up during this process and got a new vacuum cleaner. I think we're also going to use the points for a lawnmower as soon as we finish the sprinkler system and lay some sod!

Seems like there should be something more interesting to mention that all that, but I can't think of it right now...TGIF!!

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Hurricanes and warm Gulf waters...

don't typically mix well so please pray nothing substantial comes of the 3rd named storm of the 2006 Hurricane season, Chris. As of today, Chris is still a tropical storm, but as you can see the projected path leads it straight into the Gulf of Mexico early next week. The latest Gulf temperatures are around 90 degrees which could mean rapid intensification for the storm. Check out this link to our tracking site of choice.



Monday, July 31, 2006

Another first in the Kensington house...

...our first dinner party! Batch made his famous spaghetti, and we enjoyed the evening with about 12 friends. We invited those who were present for our last dinner party in the old house (well, those who still live on the Coast). It was a good time, and we look forward to doing it again soon. We will be having a proper house warming party as soon as a few more items are finished around the place (master bathroom and landscaping). Now, before anyone reading this gets offended at not being extended an invitation to the first supper, there will hopefully be MANY more, and we had to limit the invitees based on places to sit and eat (we still do not have much furniture).

As part of the preparations, I made sure to get my camera out and put it in the kitchen/dining room, but alas, I still forgot to use it and take some pictures of the festivities. Maybe next time!

Friday, July 21, 2006

Busy week...

A couple of milestones this week- we cooked dinner INSIDE our house- oven and microwave only- and as of last night we have countertops and a cooktop! Hopefully we'll be able to find the hole saw we need to install the faucet which will complete the kitchen sink! For those of you at First Pres. on Sunday, we all know how important the kitchen sink is! :)

Besides the usual work on the house it seems like we've had a busy week socially. We had dinner guests Tuesday night, we tried to make it to church on Wednesday evening but ended up working on the kitchen, had an event at a neighbor's house last night and are schedule to head to Lagniappe Pres. tonight for a crab boil. The events continue tomorrow morning with a baby shower for our neighbors Kevin and Beth who recently adopted their 2nd child from Russia (an adorable little boy named Drew).

I'll try to post more pictures of the house after this weekend.

Thursday, July 13, 2006

House pictures...

Here are some pictures of our house. It's still a work in progress, but looking more and more like a home each day...
Luke sitting in the middle of his new kitchen!

A view down our LONG island with the pantry in the background. We should get countertops and the rest of our appliances next week!
A view of our "famous" living/dining room from the kitchen

The master bedroom...not much to see here but at least there's a bed!
If you had told me a year ago that I'd be excited about a washer and dryer I would have thought you were crazy, but even I am enjoying these new additions to our home.

One of the guest bedrooms- we used some antique beds Mom had in storage. The cute bedding is courtsey of Lois!!
The front of the house with our NEW front door!! Doesn't it look great? We will likely start on landscaping next week so I should have more exterior pictures to post then.

Thursday, July 06, 2006

Home Sweet Home...

Are you sitting down and ready for this news??? We are finally in our house!! We officially moved in on Saturday and have been settling in since then. We were blessed with many helping hands to assist with the final push and cleaning efforts! The church had a group in from Palm Bay, FL to help with VBS in the mornings and help in the community in the afternoons. I'm so terrible with names, but there were 10 wonderful youth who cleaned and prepped the house. I must also mention our good friend Virginia who convinced her boyfriend to spend his Friday off installing our front door so many, many thanks to Virginia and Tim for making the move possible- the front door actually works like a front door now- and by that I mean you need a key instead of a drill driver!!

Believe it or not, we actually had our first house guests this weekend too...the Mahnes and the soon-to-be Manuels came to visit and were a tremendous help getting things put away and just giving us a chance to play for a weekend. They brought their boat so we got to get out on the water some...by the way, although they claim to have cleared the channel, drive carefully...it's not as clear as you might think! Pictures from our adventures to follow later.

Hope everyone had a safe and happy 4th!

BTW, our kitchen cabinets are being installed as I type so we might get a kitchen soon too!!!

Thursday, June 22, 2006

The latest...

Sorry we haven't been able to post more pictures of the progress. I will try to take some soon and get them up here. Things are moving along and we are still hoping to be in by July 4th. My boss has generously agreed to my working 1/2 days next week to help with the final push at the house. This will also allow me time, when stores are open, to get some furniture and "essentials" for the house. WOO HOO!

Thursday, June 15, 2006

Looking more and more like a home...

Here are a few pictures to tide everyone over until tomorrow. There's been a lot going on around the homestead so I'll try to take some more pictures tonight and share them tomorrow. Our goal is to be in the house by July 4th weekend!

One of the "Jack and Jill" guest rooms- ceiling fan courtsey of Laura, Bobby and CW
Master bathroom cabinets...there's also a wall cabinet I actually installed!

The NEW exterior of the house..more pics tomorrow as it's now finished, but this is close!
We've had a fun couple of weekends away, but are looking forward to some time in town to finish up the house and actually move in! We'll need some volunteers to help us clean it and get it liveable so if anyone is interested... :)

Saturday, June 03, 2006

Today

I drove one of these...

AND

... one of these


The skid steer was cool but the excavator was incredible.

I feel like a little kid who just spent the day playing with the toy(s) he always wanted.

I may not sleep thinking about it.

B

Friday, May 26, 2006

WE PASSED!!!

Here's one more reason (as if we need more reasons) to PRAISE GOD...
The plumbing inspector came back out this morning and we PASSED for both water and gas. We will be able to call the gas company next week and have them come set a meter. Batch also called our plumber and let them know we passed and that we'll be ready to install the water heater next week.

Buddy is here today working with Batch to get the final pieces of the electrical complete so we can call for an inspection on Tuesday. That means A/C and FLOORS!!!

We are taking a break this weekend and heading to Chattanooga, TN and Birmingham, AL to visit some friends. Have a safe and happy Memorial Day!

Monday, May 22, 2006

Time to do the tiling...

...we did the tiling! For those of you who remember the old Dunkin' Donuts commercial, that will make sense. For others, sorry for the random reference.

Well, thanks to lots of help from my mom over the past week and a VERY long work day on Saturday, all the floor tile in the house has been laid. Depending on what is happening in the rest of the house this week, we will likely grout the new tile later this week or early next week. We've also put the first coat of paint on most of the trim (baseboards, crown and door molding) T.S. left behind for us to use.

Batch spoke to our local plumber late last week and he said that, legally, the city can not make us replace the washing machine drain since it was existing but that it would likely cause us problems down the road so we're better off replacing it now. Hopefully his crew will be able to replace the drain this morning and get the inspector back out to sign off on the project.

Bobby and Laura have been coming over in the evenings to help with the finish electrical work. They have all the ceiling fans installed and most of the electrical boxes wired up. There are some more ceiling fixtures to install and an outlet or 2 to find (they were accidentally covered by sheetrock) then we should be ready for final electrical inspection!! That means sweet A/C AND installation of our hardwood floors.

The neighborhood handyman is making quick work of our siding project. Almost all the "boards" of the board and batten siding are installed, and he should be able to start putting up the battens this week. We might be ready for house paint by the weekend.

Thank you for your prayers during our rebuilding. Please continue to pray for smooth building and passed inspections. So many things are just sitting on ready waiting for a small trigger to let the progress continue.

We will post pictures as soon as we remember the camera!

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Progress Pics

We are installing board-and-batten siding. This is a picture of our house with the boards (no battens yet) but it looks much better than before.




Again from different angles.

















Yesterday, we also installed cabinets, a light fixture and the shower head in one bathroom. The camera angles are bad (really bad, but I think you can make out the progress), but it looks a little more like a house every day.


Friday, May 12, 2006

A Brief Progress Report

I know Batch took some pictures yesterday that he wanted to upload to show everyone, but the internet was done at the Leavengoods last night. Maybe this weekend we'll get some more pictures posted. Here's what's been going on this week:
- Siding: As of last night, the cedar siding was complete along the driveway side of the house and people were stopping by to compliment Batch on how good it looks.
- Electrical: Buddy is back!!! He and Batch have been installing outlets and switches all day and have most of the "back" (really the north side) of the house complete. Batch and I will pick out some light fixtures this evening or tomorrow morning and those will be installed. We hope to be ready for the electrical inspection next week so we can get the A/C turned on and begin acclimating the hardwood flooring.
- Painting: You can basically call this complete. There is some touch up to do and the trim still has to be painted and installed, but it looks awesome! Mom will be here to help next week and I think that will be her project- finish the painting throughout the house.
- Plumbing: We had a little hiccup with the plumbing inspection, but our plumber is on the case and will hopefully have this worked out early next week.
- Cabinets: The rest of the cabinets arrived yesterday in a HUGE Bertch truck. I've taken a tiny peak and they are beautiful. If we get the electricity turned on, we might be able to begin installing the next week!

Thanks to everyone for your continued prayers and support. We continued to be amazed by God's provision for us.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Does Birth Order Determine Success?

A very interesting article I stumbled across this morning (and the topic of one of my gradeschool science projects).

I am the youngest of three:
Youngest: The youngest child tends to be the most creative and can be very
charming -- even manipulative. Because they often identify with the underdog,
they tend to champion egalitarian causes. (Youngest siblings were the earliest
backers of the Protestant Reformation and the Enlightenment.) Successful in
journalism, advertising, sales and the arts, famous youngest children include
Cameron Diaz, Jim Carrey, Drew Carey, Rosie O'Donnell, Eddie Murphy and Billy
Crystal.

Holly is an only:
Only Children: Only children have similar characteristics to first borns and are
frequently burdened with high parental expectations. Research shows they are
more confident, articulate and likely to use their imagination than other
children. They also expect a lot from others, hate criticism, can be inflexible
and are likely to be perfectionists. Well-known only children include Rudy
Guiliani, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Alan Greenspan, Tiger Woods, tennis' teen
queen Maria Sharapova and Leonardo Da Vinci.

What are you? Do you think our profiles (Holly and I) fit? Does your profile fit?

B

Friday, May 05, 2006

A few pictures of the progress

Batch and our friend CW work on hanging the insulation board. The next step on the exterior work will be siding. Inspired by the beautiful homes of the Springhill and Fairhope, AL areas, we've decided to use cedar siding.



Moving inside the house, we find the first of our cabinet order...it's the vanity and linen cabinet for the "jack & jill" bathroom! The remainder of the order should arrive sometime next week!!

Here's the guest bathroom just off the "man room." The workers did a GREAT job with the paint in that room!


It's time for tile selection...below are our 3 options...let us know what you think. We have one in mind, but enjoy hearing from all of you!

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

Forward Progress

After months of being stuck in neutral, and sometimes even reverse, things at the house are racing forward. Batch has taken a leave of absence to spearhead the operation and so far it's been well worth it. We are so thankful for God's provision and blessing in our efforts to restart our lives. Here are just a few things to give thanks for:

  • The sheetrock is DONE!
  • Walls and ceilings are being painted as I type (I'm stuck in the office while others are working on the house).
  • Our kitchen and bathroom cabinets will be delivered TOMORROW!
  • Our flooring is on order (or almost on order) and will likely only take a few days to arrive.
  • Mr. Buddy will be here later this week to begin the finish electrical.
  • Volunteers, volunteers, volunteers...our friends have been VERY helpful throughout this process (especially CW- I'm glad you work so close!!).
  • The soffits have been replaced and furring strips for the siding are being installed this week.

Please continue to pray for skilled laborers to assist in the cabinet and flooring installation and for continued forward progress. At this rate, we may actually move in this month!! I'll try to take and post some pictures of the house that is slowly but surely becoming a home soon.

Monday, April 17, 2006

Which MUPPET are you?

I'm Scooter...pretty funny if you ask me! :)

Brainy and knowledgable, you are the perfect sidekick.You're always willing to lend a helping hand.In any big event or party, you're the one who keeps things going."15 seconds to showtime!"

Wednesday, April 05, 2006

A bunch of news (and some olds)

Electrical Inspection-
We got approval on our rough electrical inspection on the very first try a few weeks ago. This is a very big deal that I sense many of you had been praying for. I had intended to post a picture of the signed permit, but I'm a slacker and never did download the pics. Our good friend Buddy Hines did a great job getting us ready for that, so big thanks to him.

Plumbing Progress-
The plumbing effort continues.

Dad and Mr. Jerry have been here again since last Friday and left for home today. We worked through last weekend and got the remaining attic items pretty much wrapped up. The gas lines were tested earlier this week and withstood the pressure so that is very good news. The remaining rough plumbing will hopefully get wrapped up early next week so we can get to sheetrock. We still will need a permit and official inspection approval on this work as well, so please be praying that both would be provided. Also, please pray that the remaining work would proceed swiftly so that Dad and Jerry can get back to their normal lives. Also, big, big thanks to their families for allowing them to be away to help get us over this hurdle.

Mortgage payoff-
I wrote here last week that we had received the checks from the insurance company that would payoff our debt on our previous mortgage. We FedExed the checks and appropriate documentation on Friday. We got confirmation on Monday that Chase had received the package and got word yesterday that everything had been processed and that we no longer have debt on the old place. So, the deal is done. We own that piece of dirt, steps and debris outright now. WOO HOO! (that is real excitement, not sarcasm in case anyone is wondering)

Leave of Absence-
Next to the mortgage payoff, this is really some of the biggest news for us of late. We have been praying and thinking for a while now about me taking some time off from my consulting work with The Structure Group. The people at TSG are fantastic and everyone there has been beyond flexible, very understanding and remarkably generous with Holly and I as we seek to put our life back together. But with the renovation ongoing and all the challenges of life after Katrina, I have been sensing a need/calling to take some time off. This hopefully will allow us to make some significant progress on the house (i.e. get it liveable and us moved in) and to do some real soul-searching and reflection on what our vocational calling is and where that might take us (or leave us). My leave starts today (I am currently at the airport waiting for my last flight home for a while) and will continue for a few months (at least).

So please pray that we would be refreshed by this time off from weekly travel, that Holly and I would grow more and more unified to one another in Christ, that the renovations would be completed very quickly and that God would grant us clarity and wisdom as to what sort of work we will return to once this time is over. Despite how generously God has provided for us thus far, we still have some trepidations about the financial implications of me not working (well not having an income) for a while. So please pray that God would continue to provide and that He would extinguish our doubt and give us peace and confidence in His provision.

Thanks.

B

Monday, April 03, 2006

Schaeffer on the church and Armstrong on the PCA

A friend sent me this article tonight by John Armstrong in which he conveys his concern for the Presbyterian Church in America. It articulates well some concerns/sentiments that have been bouncing around in my own mind in recent months (maybe even years). Here is an excerpt from that article (emphasis mine):
I also have a growing concern for the PCA. This is a conflicted denomination. This conflict does not come from the Left at all, like it does in so many of the older fellowships in America. This denomination is not fighting about homosexual ordination or the adoption of anti-Semitic overtures with regard to the state of Israel. This conflict, and the spirit that energizes it, comes from the far Right. You see, the PCA has a very vocal minority of folks who just can’t stop arguing. They seem to thrive on polemics. Every controversy known to conservative Christianity seems to eventually find its way into the PCA. I have been reminded of this again over the last few weeks. One theological overture after another keeps surfacing and making its way into the bloodstream of the PCA, poisoning the missional good of this fellowship over and over again. I do not know how long this group can sustain this kind of hostility.
How long can we sustain this kind of hostility?

I'm not sure, but on a related note, I finished up Francis Schaeffer's True Spirituality last week. I was struck by the clarity of his thoughts on prayer and characteristics which the church ought to exhibit and how we as Christians are to work to make it so. On page 146, Schaeffer speaks of how we as the church (Christians) are to live in relationship with each other and the subsequent changes that are (or should be?) wrought in us as we are continually conformed more and more to the image of Christ.

Frankly, in many ways the church, or at least cultural-Christianity/American-evangelicalism (and I am afraid maybe even much of the PCA), has lost sight of the communal aspect of our calling. We have made church into a building or a denomination or a system of narrowly defined doctrines or a place you go on Sundays (and sometimes Wednesdays) and have forgotten that we are commanded to "Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another. "

In response to this lack of community and un-love we are tempted to respond just as unbiblically, often by using the world's methods or worse by completely disengaging, throwing up our hands and walking away. And sadly, by so doing, we engage in the very action we deplore; we don't want to love people who are hard to love. We want everybody to conform to our own wishes and do things our way. Schaeffer proposes that we pray and goes on to write:

The Armstrong article and the Schaeffer ideas intersect where the church has forgotten: that it is for Christ.

We have instead become hypnotized by what we are against. We pledge fierce loyalty to personalities and parties and organizations and doctrines and forget the centrality of Christ crucified. There must be a way to preserve Biblical fidelity without succumbing to this exponential fragmentation. The party spirit is alive and well.

Saturday, April 01, 2006

What's your slogan?

Here's a little mindless entertainment for you...check out this link. Put in your name and it will give you some suggested advertising slogans using your name. Thanks for Virginia for the link.

Here are a couple of mine:

The Holly Effect.
A Day Without Holly is Like a Day Without Sunshine.

What about some for Batch?? I was pretty sure my husband would not appreciate my posting the ones it generated for him...not to mention they didn't make any sense. Oh well, Happy Saturday!

Monday, March 27, 2006

It has been 210 days...

... since the storm. Nearly seven months. 6.90411 to be exact.

It has been 187 days since Holly first met with our adjuster and he said "that our damage was entirely a 'water event' and that there was 'no wind involved'."

But it came today. The check. Made out to us and our mortgage compay for 100% of the value of our policy.

The real one, not a cancelled one.

That sound you hear? That is us breathing a very big sigh of relief.

We'll call Chase tomorrow and figure out how to get this thing paid off. And then we get back to work, taking the steps necessary to put life back together.

Please give thanks to God. Even when we worry, gripe, complain and generally doubt his goodness and provision and sovereignty, He can and will provide. He is good. He is merciful. He provides for His people. As Jean Larroux says, God's provision is often clear in the rearview mirror, but foggy looking in the windshield.

That has certainly been my experience again and again and again.

Give thanks.

B

13, 11, 7

That's approximately how many hours we (Dad, Mr. Josey and I) logged plumbing this weekend on Friday, Saturday and Sunday respectively (normally we try to rest and worship only on Sunday's, but since our ox has been in the ditch since August 29th, we are trying earnestly to get it out... see Exodus 20:9-11 and Luke 14: 1-6). Anyhow, 31 hours per man, for a total of 93 man hours.

We jack-hammered for drain pipes and repaired broken vent pipes and laid out and fastened new copper piping in the attic and walls. I have now returned to Houston for my weekly commute to work, but Dad and Mr. Josey are continuing this week with the remaining plumbing tasks. I think that, Lord willing, by the end of this week/early next week we may be able to proceed with the installation of drywall/sheetrock. That would be huge.

Please offer praise for God's provision of Mr. Josey (a licensed plumber) and using Dad to find and bring him to Biloxi. Dad is also providing his labor in this effort as well. So big thanks to both my heavenly and earthly fathers.

Thursday, March 23, 2006

We ALMOST got the checks...

Well add it to the list of complications surrounding almost everything you try to accomplish since Hurricane Katrina...When we called our insurance company and found out they had actually already issued checks to us for our claim, they were surprised we had not received those checks. The checks were cut on March 2nd, and I called on March 13th. Concerned they were lost in the mail forwarding system (the checks were sent to our destroyed home), AIG strongly suggested we stop payment and have the checks reissued. I agreed thinking it would be best considering our experiences to date with forwarded mail (sometimes a 6 week delay). In a bitter sweet turn of events, the forwarded checks finally arrived yesterday...BUT they were already cancelled in the insurance company's system so we have to wait until the new checks, issued today, arrive. I know it's only 1 more week, but it would have been nice to get the checks in the mail to our mortgage company before the April payment is due...

Oh well, we're still THRILLED they are REALLY paying us as evidenced by the checks we received. Please pray for swift delivery of the new checks and offer praise for God's provision to us.

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

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Monday, March 13, 2006

WalkJogRun

I, at one time in my life, exercised. Yes, I know that may be difficult to believe but it is true.

Sometimes that foolishness involved running/jogging long distances. There were many times that I had to loosely guestimate how far my runs were based on how long they took or we would hop in the car and drive the proximate route to come up with an estimate.

This very, very cool hack of Google Maps is a route planner and a distance/speed calculator and it takes the guesswork out of route planning. You basically connect the dots and it calculates your route distance.

FROM THE http://www.walkjogrun.net/ WEBSITE:

How does it work?

Click on the map to set a starting point. Then keep clicking from point to point to draw a route. Click on any of the markers for your route and see how far this point is from the start and what the estimated time would be for a given speed.

Building a running community

You can save your maps by clicking on any of your markers and hit "Save Your Route" to add it to the database. Next time you or anyone else looking in your neighborhood is looking for a route, they will see your pin.

Anyhow, its very cool; check it out. If I ever start running again, I'll use this tool to plan routes. In fact, instead of sitting here reading/writing about it, I should actually go get some exercise.

B

Sunday, March 12, 2006

What's the trouble about this place?

“… What’s the trouble about this place? Not that people are quarrelsome --- that’s only human nature and was always the same even on Earth. The trouble is they have no Needs. You get everything you want (not very good quality, of course) by just imagining it. That’s why it never costs any trouble to move to another street or build another house. In other words, there’s no proper economic basis for any community life. If they needed real shops, chaps would have to stay near where the real shops were. If they needed real houses they’d have to stay near where the builders were. It’s scarcity that enables a society to exist… if I can come back with some real commodities --- anything at all that you could really bite or drink or sit on --- why, at once you’d get a demand down in our town…. You’d soon get people coming to live near --- centralization. Two fully inhabited streets would accommodate the people that are now spread over a million square miles of empty streets. “

The Intelligent Man in C.S. Lewis’ The Great Divorce describing Hell.
Does this sound familiar to anybody?

It sounds to me alot like much of America.

And certainly in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina, I can see how scarcity and suffering has forced people back into a certain level of community. You're alot more likely to visit with your neighbors when you know you both have similar needs and sufferings.

I can't decide whether abundance, suburban sprawl, the great-white-flight, air-conditioning and drive thru everything have killed community or if the lack of true community has driven the growth of our culture of convenience.

Thoughts? Please share.

Friday, March 10, 2006

THEY PAID US, THEY PAID US, THEY PAID US!!!!!!

2"There is none holy like the LORD;
there is none besides you;
there is no rock like our God.
3Talk no more so very proudly,
let not arrogance come from your mouth;
for the LORD is a God of knowledge,
and by him actions are weighed.
4The bows of the mighty are broken,
but the feeble bind on strength.
5Those who were full have hired themselves out for bread,
but those who were hungry have ceased to hunger.
The barren has borne seven,
but she who has many children is forlorn.
6The LORD kills and brings to life;
he brings down to Sheol and raises up.
7The LORD makes poor and makes rich;
he brings low and he exalts.
8He raises up the poor from the dust;
he lifts the needy from the ash heap
to make them sit with princes
and inherit a seat of honor.
For the pillars of the earth are the LORD's,
and on them he has set the world.

1 Samuel 2: 2-8
After our adjuster submitted our claim a few weeks ago, we have been wondering what the status of our claim was. We made some calls today and got word that they (the wind insurance company) have processed the claim and approved the settlement for 100% of our policy value! They claim to have already sent the check, but to our old address. They are issuing a new check to be sent to us at the Leavengood's.

This is a huge, enormous, tremendous, GINORMOUS weight lifted off of our shoulders. Thank you all for your continued prayers in the matter. And please, please, please offer thanks to God for his goodness and mercy and abundance and his pleasure in lavishing us with this gift.

Lord willing, we should be receiving the check shortly. Please pray that it arrives swiftly and without incident.


Humbly,

Batch the poor, dusty beggar.

P.S.- On a less edifying note, I found the 'plumber' today and gave him a thorough, unmerciful, brazen, un-Christ-like tongue lashing. I was tempted to use a golf club instead, but somehow I managed not to. He of course offered more excuses and promised to 'be there tomorrow'. Please pray that God would convict this man of his error and lead him to repentance and faith. Also pray that God would lead me to repentance of my pleasure in delivering that unmerciful message.

Monday, March 06, 2006

A word about THE clock...

Many of you who watched Trading Spaces on Saturday night have asked about the significance of the clock on our mantel. It was hard to catch what we said regarding that clock so I thought I'd post a little about its meaning to us.

Batch's mom, who passed away from cancer in 2003 , believed in giving traditional anniversary gifts. Traditionally the first anniversary is the "clock" anniversary, so for our first anniversary in 2001 she gave us that clock- which ironically enough, sat on the bookshelf next to the fireplace in our old house. TLC/Edward had no idea the significance of the clock prior to the reveal. I don't know who to credit with finding the clock in the rubble and debris after Katrina, but Batch did not remember that we had found it, so seeing it on the matel was 'extra special' for him. For those curious, no, it does not still work, although we've had offers to repair it. We may repair it one day, but for now will just let it be a reminder of where we've been and how far we've come. God is faithful and chooses to remind us of His plan for us in tiny little ways--like a clock on a mantel.

Sunday, March 05, 2006

Found another article....

... from the Mobile (AL) Register. Holly did a great job on this one too.

..."The house that we lost on the beach was an older home that we had
bought and renovated," said Holly Batchelder. "That is something my husband and
I enjoy."
...
"Our house that we lived in prior to Katrina was completely destroyed on
the beach in Gulfport," Batchelder said. "The house that we bought after Katrina
had about 6 feet of water in it. It's on the the Biloxi Back Bay. It's not
waterfront. It's across the street from the water."
...
"It is a different situation for them," Holly Batchelder said. "They don't
usually start with as little as they started with this time."

She said she and her husband and the Raths have been friends since their
days together in college at Mississippi State. She won't reveal details about
how each couple made over the other's living room; that's a surprise for the end
ofthe show, she said.

But she did let on that each couple wound up with a living room in which
they can live -- something many displaced homeowners in the area have not had
for months.

Now it's a matter of addressing some electrical and plumbing issues so they
can move in and continue working on the rest of their new-to-them house,
Batchelder said.

She and and her husband and their friends are grateful for
the helping hand extended by TLC and "Trading Spaces."

"I never imagined them being down here," she said. "We are extremely
thankful that they did, and we think they enjoyed it as much as we did."


The full text of the article here.

I am "the crown molding master"...

The show aired and the crew at TLC/Banyan Productions really outdid themselves. The final edit wasn't as cheesy as the episodes sometimes are. The depictions of the devastation here were some of the best I've seen. And remarkably, they even were able to make me come across as thoughtful and moderately intelligent (and some comments here and here on previous posts attest to this observation).

I am obligated however to pick on Brad. At the end of the show my shirt looked like it had been soaked in drywall mud and rolled in caulk, while his looked like it just came from the cleaners. How much work did you do man?

And of course, I must thank my wife for crowning me "the crown molding master".

Saturday, March 04, 2006

WB in the SH

Nice work from the SunHerald.

Until then, homeowners Batch and Holly Batchelder of Biloxi will say only
that the whole experience was fantastic and they'd do it again, if asked.
...
"There is nothing we would change about the room," Batchelder said. "It's
beautiful. They really pegged us on our taste," he said of the Raths. "They
really did an outstanding job."
However, that room is all they've got so far.
The Batchelders are still living with friends, unable to move into their house
due to contractor problems with finishing the rest of it. They bought the
storm-damaged house after Katrina destroyed their beachfront home.
...
"We'd hoped to be able to be in the house and have a party," Batchelder
said, "but we're going to watch in our surrogate home with our adopted family
and try to make the most of it."

Read the article in its entirety here.

Friday, March 03, 2006

HB in the CL

She sounds so sound-bite.
"We were literally starting from scratch in the house," Holly Batchelder
said. She and her husband enjoy renovating homes but this is more daunting.
"Having one room done sets the tone for the rest of the house. It's very, very
helpful. It gives us some direction.

"Everybody was really great, easy to work with. They were completely
taken aback by the situation down here," Batchelder said of the Philadelphia,
Pa.-based crew. "I think it was a good experience for them, a good experience
for us as well. ... One of those once-in-a-lifetime things you'll always be glad
you did."

Good job Holly.

Here's the link to the whole article.

Monday, February 27, 2006

Trading Spaces Air Date...

Although we have known the air date for a while, we didn't want to publish anything here until the schedule was available on TLC's website. "Trading Spaces: Kindness after Katrina; Mississippi: Southern Hospitality" will premiere this Saturday, March 4th at 8pm (central) on TLC. We have not seen the cut version, but have every confidence Kevin was kind to us and did a fantastic job on the edits. Please tune in to watch this very special episode, and join us in praising the Lord for His provision of this great experience.

Again, our sincere thanks to all who helped us get the house ready for the show. We could not have done this without each and everyone of you!

Friday, February 17, 2006

Luckiest People

The words of a dear friend today in regard to Holly and I:
"Ya'll are the luckiest people I know"
Her tongue was planted firmly in cheek.

By all indications, it turns out our Massachusetts plumber has been scamming us from the get go. He's very crafty. He latched on to a local contractor (who has done a good job for us) for credibility. He somehow also got a referral to us through our local church. He initially asked for $1,000 deposit for materials and immediately delivered a whirlpool tub, a regular tub/shower and a shower along with some copper piping. He then, based on all this credibility, convinced us to 'purchase' through him some additional fixtures and upgrades for some more money (up front of course). All told, we ended up into him for $5,600 and thus far he's only delivered the above mentioned materials and done a very small amount of rough plumbing.

We've been frustrated by his lack of progress the last few weeks and were turning up the pressure on him . He always had an excuse and so we began putting pressure on the local contractor as well. Long story short, today we discovered that John Tasselari has a record of fraudulent activity. He doesn't have a Mississippi Plumbing License. His Mass. license was apparently revoked a few years ago. He's has the notable distinction of being on the Foxborough, Mass. police 'most wanted list' for what appear to be 5 outstanding warrants.

So, please pray that we are patient and wise and charitable and submissive and patient and patient and patient in the midst of this setback. We want to be angry and get even, but I don't think that is the proper response. We could also use some help now in the plumbing department too, so if you want to pray for that, we'd be very grateful.

3Not only so, but we[c] also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.

Romans 5: 3-5

Thursday, February 16, 2006

Virgil Willard Hayes

Not sure many from the MSMS period of my life read this, but Will Hayes passed away this week. Will was my roommate first year (1991-1992). I received the news Monday evening that he was in ICU and not expected to survive. The note below indicates that by then he may have already passed.
I am writing you to let you know that Will Hayes (MSMS Class of 1993) passed away on Monday February 13, 2006 in Little Rock, Arkansas. The visitation will be 5-8pm on Friday February 17 in Canton, Mississippi at the Breeland Funeral Home. The funeral service will be held at 11am Saturday February 18, 2006 at the First Methodist Church (across the street from the funeral home.) Cards can be sent to
PO Box 153
Canton, MS 39046

More information will be posted on the website (www.msmsaa.org) as it becomes available.

Sepideh Baghaii
MSMS Class of 1996
Whether you knew him or not, please pray for Will's family, that God's comfort and peace would envelop them in what must be an extremely agonizing time.

Batch

Permit Granted, Claim Filed

Well, we got the electrical permit we needed. Buddy is coming back down tonight to tidy up the remaining rough electrical work. I'll help him tomorrow do what remains to be done in the attic.

We also got word that the insurance adjuster has filed our claim. He submitted the claim for 100% of our policy value which is great. BUT, we aren't out of the woods yet as the insurance company must approve his recommendation.

So, please offer thanks that we've received the permit and pray fervently that the insurance company would see fit to approve our claim and pay the limits of the policy.

Batch

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Electrical Permission

We have an urgent need for an electrical permit.

A very generous friend has donated his time and talent wiring our house for free. This has been a tremendous blessing and we are extremely thankful for his service.

However, he isn't licensed locally and we haven't been able to find contractors who are licensed that are willing to pull the permit for us. This is either because they're too busy to bother and there's very little in this for them OR they aren't willing to put their name on someone else's work.

So, we need someone who is willing to pull the permit. Please pray that the right person would materialize. If you know someone who is able and may be willing to do us this favor, please let us know ASAP. Without inspection and approval, we are not able to proceed with putting the rest of the house together (you can't hang drywall before you get approval).


Thanks,

Batch

Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Our 60 minutes of fame...

First of all, sorry it's taken us so long to post anything regarding last week! We are currently limited in what we can post until after the show airs- tentatively March 4th. We will post the definite air date and time as soon as TLC lets us know. I want to say a TREMENDOUS thank you to all the volunteers who helped us get the house ready for filming in such a short amount of time. We are eternally greatful and hope you like the results!!

As nice as it was to take a breather this past weekend, there are still "miles to go before we sleep"- or sleep in the house anyway! Anyone looking to have some "fun" one weekend is MORE than welcome to come join the project. We are hoping to work on some electrical this weekend and possibly finish it up the following weekend. The heating and air system should be complete this week and just waiting on electrical and plumbing. Speaking of plumbing...if anyone knows how to keep our plumber out of the casino and on the job, we're taking suggestions!! :) Rumor has it he will be working on the house again this Thursday. Hopefully, we'll make significant progress on that front so we can convince Entex to give us a new gas meter. Once all the mechanical systems are in place, it will be a drywall party as we finish up the remainder of the interior. Batch and I are hopeful that we will be living there in short order, so please continue to pray to that end.

If the great outdoors are more your speed then working on inside projects, we will be starting on the exterior of the home soon. Plans are currently being developed, so stay tuned...

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

The rejoicing tithe...

... more great wisdom and insight from Drinking with Calvin and Luther.
An irrefutable argument for alcoholic beverages in the Old Testament is revealed by the Hebrew word shekar, which is used some 22 times and literally means "inebriating drink."...

...The shekar was so pleasing to the Lord that he commanded it as a drink offering to himself saying, "And the drink offering thereof shall be the fourth part of an hin for the one lamb: in the holy place shalt thou cause the strong wine to poured unto the Lord for a drink offering" (Numbers 28:7)....

...Deuteronomy 14:26 ...is the classical drinking text for both Calvinists and Lutherans. We may reverently call it the "Moses Stout Text." It reads:

And you shall now bestow that money for whatsoever your soul lusts after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever your soul desires: and you shall eat there before the Lord your God, and you shall rejoice, you and your household.

What Romans 8 and 9 is to Arminianism (pulverizing the idol of free will), so is Deuteronomy 14 to prohibitionism. As we see in the Moses Stout Text, the "rejoicing tithe" may be spent for "wine, or strong drink [shekar], or for whatsoever your soul desires...." The people of God are not only permitted to drink shekar, but are to drink it "before the presence of the Lord," and "in the fear of the Lord" (14:23). Also, the Hebrew verb here for "lust" ('avah in Hebrew and epithumeo in Greek) is the same verb found in the Decalogue, where God commands us not to covet (Deuteronomy 5:21). Only here an amazing thing is said: God states that it is lawful to "lust" after wine, or strong drink, so long as these things are not the cellared property of your neighbor. Thus, the Moses Stout Text commends strong alcoholic beverages in five ways: (1) we may drink wine and Moses Stout; (2) we may even lust after Moses Stout; (3) we must always drink wine and Moses Stout in the fear and presence of the Lord; (4) we must rejoice when we drink wine and Moses Stout; (5) our households may drink wine and Moses Stout with us.

The one translation of the Moses Stout Text that bestows a probable nonalcoholic sense is the New King James Version, with its "similar drink" rendering. The translation is so bold that it is bald; that is, the whiner bias of the translator is plainly exposed. Elsewhere, the NKJV renders shekar "intoxicating drink" (Isaiah 5:11), but here in Deuteronomy 14, where the meaning is not negative but overwhelmingly positive, the word is given special treatmenet so that intoxicating drink is not readily associated with good things. The Moses Stout Text, then, is diluted and becomes a symbol not only of translation dishonesty, but of the watered-down message of much of evangelical Christendom.

Drinking with Calvin and Luther, Chapter 7- Scripture & Spirits; pp. 143-145
My favorite line: "The Moses Stout Text, then, is diluted and becomes a symbol not only of translation dishonesty, but of the watered-down message of much of evangelical Christendom."

Intriguing that the command is for wine or strong drink and that in many churches in the observance of the Lord's supper, we have replaced God's wise command for a strong beverage with our culture's wisdom/preference for weak Welch's (wine is not even an option). It is also interesting the He commanded this observance daily and in many protestant churches, you're looked at suspiciously if you want to partake in the Lord's supper more often than once a quarter. Then there's the whole commendation to lust for the strong drink and rejoice when we drink it.

Hardcore. Very interesting. Comment away.

Sunday, January 08, 2006

Demolition Continues

Well, we (we being us watching some contractors) demolished the walls. Here are the before and after pics. You can see the jacks supporting the load previously borne by the walls. We'll come back in with some combination of beams and columns to provide the necessary support.





<--Before / After-->





We (same as above) also demo'd the yellow bathroom on the North side of the house. You can see the skeleton of what was a shower and I'm standing roughly where the wall was previously. We're gonna make the bathroom a little bigger and update it.

The ceilings have been mostly ripped out, the mold treatment occurs tomorrow and the framing/furring should start on Tuesday.

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Sights of the holidays...

Christmas is always my favorite holiday of the year, and this year was no exception. The Leavengoods were most gracious to us and we enjoyed taking part in their family traditions.

As some of the Leavengood family enjoys Christmas morning, you can see a small puppy on Lois' lap...that's her Christmas present from Doug-- a new Westie appropriately named "Mistletoe"- aka Missy to most of the family, but Batch and I prefer "Toey" (well, she does have a habit of biting your toes...) Oh, and did I mention...the day after Doug bought Missy, another Westie breeder called and in order to keep Missy a surprise, Doug agreed to let Lois buy a puppy from the 2nd breeder...by the end of January, there will be 2 puppies ruling the roost at the Leavengoods...and one grumpy old dog (Luke) running for the hills!



And here's one holiday event we hope does NOT become part of the family traditions... Even Mugridge, Laura and Bobby's dog (on the bed), is surprised by this scene!
Scott, sorry buddy, but I couldn't resist posting this one...


We hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas and a super New Year!